Only once we understand the origin of the pain, can we provide a solution to fix the cause.

When times are tough in sales, our natural reflex is to do what we are already doing, but more of it. We make more calls, lower our prices (even further), and hope that the increased output gets things back on track. This phenomenon isn't exclusive to salespeople. I'm sure the marketing department might be popping up in your mind, but in all areas of a business, when an increase in performance is required, we believe that more fuel onto the fire is the way forward. I was recently introduced to the concept of Fuel and Friction in Loran Nordgren and David Schonthal's book The Human Element. The idea neatly encapsulates the core ethos of Relationship Selling, and will certainly get you thinking about what you're doing today. The book shares the insight that when we want to sell a new idea, we naturally tend to beef up our proposition with fuel. We increase the discount. We increase the ad budget. We get the team to work overtime, free pizza included. The problem is that we haven't considered the points of friction that are stopping the person on the receiving end of our idea from moving forward. We have yet to take the initiative to remove the points of resistance, physical but more often mental, that hold someone back from accepting an idea. This reinforces perfectly Relationship Selling, understanding the customer, asking customer-centred questions and drilling down to find their pain point (friction). Take away the pain (friction), and you are much more likely to make the sale. “There is greater opportunity to create value by removing friction than by adding fuel”. Loran Nordgren and David Schonthal As salespeople, one of our biggest challenges is to overcome our hard-wiring that defaults to adding incentives, hype and enticements to our sales. This is the path of least resistance, and we love these paths. What I love about the concept of fuel and friction is that it provides us with a simple universal code to ensure we don't veer off into the path of least resistance. Adding more fuel is easy. Finding the friction requires us to understand our customers with empathy, which takes genuine care and skill. So, let’s look at this in a more practical selling situation: You are pitching to a Purchasing Manager (PM) who told you they want to change suppliers. Your proposal includes competitive prices and additional trading incentives (this is all fuel). On your next meeting, the PM says you are close. However, some other suppliers have different sorts of incentives. You come back to the PM with a review of your pricing and add some additional incentives (fuel), thinking this will get you over the line. At your next meeting, the PM informs you they are staying with their incumbent supplier. You may well have had the best proposal and the best outcome for the customer if they had come on board, but you failed to see the friction. We find the friction points by asking customer-centred questions and drilling down to get to the pain. We need to know these to get the customer over the line. Based on my personal experiences in selling to PMs, these are some of the friction points I have uncovered; If I change to another supplier, it will create more work for me to set them up in the system with prices, and I don’t have the time. If I change to another supplier, I will have to let the rest of the business know, and there are so many people to inform. I don’t have the time. If I change to another supplier and something goes wrong, I will have the people in the field want to kick my ass. I am not willing to take that risk. I will have to create new relationships with the supplier’s business and spend time with them, ensuring they know what service we want. I don’t have time. These are what stop the PM from coming on board with you. Knowing these friction points allows you to offer services and solutions that solve these pain points for them. Objections alone are insufficient because most objections are only skin-deep, price being the most widely used. They are not the real reason the customer doesn't want to move forward with you - they are not the pain or the friction. So, when you are next pitching something to a customer, don’t just have a fuel-based mindset. Ask yourself what the friction points are (because they are there), and if you don’t know, then your first step is to find out. Happy selling. Andrew Nisbet

How good are you at truly hearing your customer's objections? As salespeople, switching off our internal noise can be tricky as we face customer objections. We can get defensive, start worrying about our overall performance, or just brush it off and completely miss the gold hidden beneath the objection itself. At this point, our feelings and our fears reinforce our belief that many objections are personal and therefore feel like a rejection when they are simply a signpost that there is a gap between the value you have offered and how the customer perceives the offer. After over forty years of working in sales, one of the most common observations I've come across is that the best salespeople have honed their ability to actively listen to their customers. They know that most objections are smokescreens - barriers the customer puts up because as yet they haven’t built enough rapport or enough trust with the customer. They serve their customers with genuine empathy and a desire to help, allowing them to see the subtle concerns that are the root of an objection well before they arise. They aren't focused on what's in it for them. They are focused on finding the win/win outcomes where everyone walks away from the transaction satisfied. So, how can we cultivate our skillset in active listening? This lifelong skill requires continual effort - we can always sharpen the axe when it comes to how well we listen to others. The first part of practising active listening is to be aware of objections and see them as indicators that you are not yet aligned with the customer's ideal outcome. They aren't personal. They are simply an opportunity to create more value. From this viewpoint, we remain open to objections rather than closing off to them. Secondly, with our heightened level of awareness for our customer's concerns, we can drill down further on the seemingly innocuous comments that might be hiding something more. Don't hesitate to ask these questions because in the process, you are both showing the customer you are genuinely listening to them and finding new ways to create value. With this in mind, my challenge this week is to ask yourself how well you have been listening to your customers. Be honest with yourself. Are you listening with the intent to understand, or are you listening with the intent to reply based on what you want to tell the customer? "First seek to understand, then be understood" - Dr Stephen Covey If there is room for improvement - and there always should be - start practising your active listening muscle with your next sales call or meeting. Even better, practise it with your partner or a friend over a coffee next time you're with them. See how the conversation goes. I'm sure you'll cover new territory you didn't even know existed. Done right, your ability to practice active listening will profoundly impact your work relationships. You will also find that meeting and exceeding your KPIs won't be such a forced effort - it will just be a by-product of how you carry yourself as a salesperson. Happy selling. PS - If you're facing a challenge in sales right now you'd like me to address, send it in, and I'll respond to it in my following newsletter.

‘How much should I charge? How much do you think customers are willing to pay? What if I am too expensive?’ These are just some of the questions (there are many more) that salespeople and businesses think about when trying to set prices and make a profit. These are not easy questions to answer. Price is what you are asked to pay; value is what you are willing to pay. Before we go on to discuss value more generally, I want to tell you something very important – people buy on emotion and justify with logic. Think of the last time you paid more for something than you intended to, and ask yourself why. You will find that you bought this item because of how it made you feel or was going to make you feel. Our emotions are part of the brain’s limbic system, which is the non-verbal part of our brain; it has no words and cannot speak – it feels. This makes it hard to put feelings into words, so we use logic to justify our buying decisions. As salespeople, we need to understand just how important emotion is when selling. But unfortunately, much face-to-face selling has become logical in its approach: ‘Here’s what we do and here’s our product. Here are the features and benefits. Do you want to buy some?’ As a business, you can set any price based on mathematical, financial or market-driven algorithms or on gut feel. However, value is the subjective decision of the customer based on many emotions and is highly individual to the person and the situation. What is valuable to one person can be less valuable to another, even in the same market and influenced by the same market conditions. There are several different forces at work when we look at value and how customers perceive the value of what they’re buying. The Price versus Value model pictured below depicts how these forces work together. There are three fundamental forces: 1. Emotional Connection – How emotionally connected is the customer to what they’re buying? 2. Perceived Value – How much value does the customer see in what they want to buy? 3. Willingness to pay – How much is the customer prepared or willing to pay?

“If we want to improve our margins then we will have to reduce our sales growth targets” With this mindset, we generally see periods of strong sales growth, however with flattening or declining margins. When the markets shift, and sales opportunities reduce, margins then become the focus. However, we then generally see very little improvement in margin because it’s tough to action, and a flattening of revenue then becomes a double-hit on our bottom line. It is any wonder that revenue growth gets all the focus. What happens with this mindset is that we decouple the value we offer from the price we charge. Once we do that, we then find we are offering all of our value and yet continuing to discount it to maintain and grow revenue. A vicious cycle leading to a downward spiral. The answer is to couple the value we offer with the price we charge. Simple but not easy. Profitable sales growth has to become the focus, the mantra. There are two fundamental pillars to achieve success: 1 - Systems and processes 2 - Belief and behaviours These are so intertwined that one without the other will not see you fully succeed and in fact could see you go backwards because of ‘unintended consequences’. We need to ensure we have pricing systems and processes in place that support and capitalise on our ability to sell the value of what we do. These systems also then need to give us the data to be able to make better pricing decisions to maximise our profitability. However, without the customer seeing and feeling the value of our offer then the systems and data will not be enough. We have to spend as much time with our salespeople to get them to understand the value of their offer, believe it and then pass on this belief to the customer. This then becomes the inbuilt behaviours of the sales teams, this then becomes the sales culture. The coupling of these two fundamentals and then doing the work is the real differentiator. This is where win/wins happen.